You’ve RSVP’d “yes”, you’ve put it in the calendar, but you’ve still got no idea what you’re going to wear to that wedding that looms ever closer. As the betrothed get more creative with their weddings, it often seems that the dress codes become more varied and elaborate than ever. This can make it tricky to find the perfect outfit – whether it’s ‘black-tie’, ‘beach-chic’ or the more recently emerged ‘hipster-formal’. Thankfully, we’re here to help, with the ultimate guide to what to wear for every type of ceremony.
The destination wedding
As destination weddings are typically more intimate affairs, your invite likely means you’re amongst the couple’s closest friends and family. Understandably you’re even more determined to nail the dress code, but don’t worry, as this one is actually pretty easy to get right.
If the destination is somewhere tropical, you’ll need to be elegant but also ready for the beach, which means avoiding glitzy dresses and stiletto heels. Opt instead for bohemian dresses, floral prints and flowing silhouettes, allowing you to effortlessly achieve a chic summery look. Sandals and wedges are a great option for warmer climes, while a simple wrap or shawl to complement your dress can protect you against the sun and keep you warm into the evening.
If the wedding is somewhere more sophisticated such as the Italian countryside or a beautiful French chateau, choose an outfit that incorporates both trendy and timeless touches. You can’t go wrong with a floral print midi dress, but a stylish detail such an open back or high-low hem will provide an added touch of formality and elegance.
The semi-formal wedding
The semi-formal dress code is a simple one to follow and it also allows for the widest range of outfit options. Also known as ‘dressy casual’ or ‘cocktail attire’, this popular theme for weddings simply asks you to come dressed up, but not too dressed up. This essentially means you should wear a cocktail dress and heels or dressy separates, but you can also choose a long dress if you wish. If the event is during the day, lean towards lighter colours, but for an evening event you should opt for darker tones.
The black-tie wedding
If you’ve received an invitation to a black-tie wedding, it’s time to get glammed up. While men are expected to take the dress code literally and turn up in a tuxedo with a black tie, for women, the rules are less rigid.
Your best option for any black-tie event is a formal gown, but if you’d feel more comfortable in a cocktail dress you could easily dress up your look with glamorous accessories and a touch of sparkle. A black dress is typically a good choice, but for something less sombre you could also opt for jewel tones, metallics or other dark hues. Dramatic jewellery will really elevate your formal ensemble and ensure a sleek, sophisticated look.
The winter wedding
While not a dress code in itself, the winter wedding requires a unique approach to event dressing. Winter weddings are often more formal in nature, but while sleeveless summer dresses won’t be appropriate, now’s the time to introduce luxe textures such as velvet, sequins, faux fur and metallic fabrics.
Black is generally considered sombre at a summer wedding, but in winter it’s a super chic option and should be embraced. For a dose of winter-appropriate colour, however, think deep shades of purple, blue, green or red for a stylish look. Layer up with an elegant jacket or coat, retire the open toe sandals for a sophisticated court shoe and don’t be afraid to step up the style stakes with a floor-length gown or embroidered cocktail dress.
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